you are right both are not same and i should talk with all. now my problem is that i have decided to break up with him cuz i wanted him to talk with me always but sometimes when he doesn’t talk i get upset. he says that your alwayz free so u cant xpect me to txxt u when am busy . i knw i dont t ry to understandnhis problems so i want to break up and i want him to forget me and be happy. but we cant be without each other and i love him a lot.