Hi it is normal problem with all the girls in their family. Actually it is not a problem , it is because parents should take care more responsibility of girls than boys. It is still not a better age for u take decision of ur life. So ur parents wanted to realise u about this. It is not a fault of loving someone in this age but it has some restrictions for it before certain age. Because still there is lot of things u should know first. Because all of this is not punishing u instead they are only protecting u. So what r u going to do after 12?