Azad you are right.. the problem is that my possessiveness and irrational clinging on to something I am used to. There is no explanation as to why but that has always been a part of my relationships n friendships since I was little. I think now would be a good time to grow up. Its just the feeling of being replaced, or not being needed as much as before, which makes me go haywire. Its ridiculous I know, I realise it while im typing it..I need to condition my thoughts to get out of this vicious cycle of thoughts. Thank u so much for ur suggestions.