Hats off to you who is taking her husband’s affair so sportingly.
Just ask a question to yourself…..
Had your reaction been the same if you had kids?
You say that you husband loves you and her equally…Is it possible for you to have the same feelings for someone else and your husband too? Answer yourself and brainstorm.
Please involve your families into this and reach to a conclusion. In this way no one would be benefited.
I am not a psychologist . Kindly use your discretion to my suggestions.