There can be many reason why you have developed a feeling of hatred towards your parents. Its difficult to help you cope with this emotion and issue on the basis of the information you have provided.
Sometimes we tend to jump to conclusions on the basis of what our eyes see and our heart differs to consider…
Its clear and good, that you are aware about the love and care your parents have for you. What I have gathered from your post is that you have difference in opinion and feel controlled or over-protected by your parents. I am sure you might also agree that they might have their own reasons for their actions. It is natural to feel hurt, sad and low when things don’t work as per our needs, desires and thinking. But there are ways to cope with such emotions, and you can overcome and resolve your negative emotions.
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Hope these few lines could bring some amount of relief to you