RE: feel like in a cage


Hey lisa,

Veentherapy is right. Our parents are so over protective that there act sometimes makes us feel that we are in cage. But the truth behind they love us and care about us. Today they just want you to stand up on your feet and have fantabulous career. To be in relationshio with guy is good right but all these things are secondary what most important is your career rest of the things comes later. To be honest why being in a relationship when it doesn’t have a future.

Ask yourself one thing if u cant leave him right now, would you be able to leave him in future??
Secondly, what the priority in your life right now is, your career or relationship??

You said that u get happiness and solace being with your bf and you cant live without him. The question u ask urself now is what os more important to you n which relation you cant live without -a relationship of parent daughter, which has brought u up or relationship of few months or years who’ll also not be with you in future as well.

Just answer these questions to yourself and i dont need your answr to it.. j6st tel me what you felt aftr you answrd d questions

Lisa we shouldn’t give any person that much imprtance that wether they are in life or are not in our life shud affect us and people around us. I know we all need love but it doesn’t come with conditions,not even the condition of present and future.

The relationship which lasts forever is parent child relationship. I amnot forcing you to think this way, u have your opinion but try and take a stand instead of building up inside you just let it out.

There is no soultion to any problem. The solution is always with you just need to find the way of reaching towards it,

If you have problems regarding the behaviour of your parents do talk to them one to one and pour your heart out to them m sure that they will understand you.

Hope to see the positive reply from you soon.

All the best,

Sonali Sardana
Clinical Psychologist