you have been more then helpful.. thanks.
I used to smoke, rarely but I used too. My wife used to argue on that also. But smoking wasnt as important I was not addicted so I stopped completely. Its been 3 months that I quit smoking.. really a bad thing to adapt as a habbit. i wish your husband quits too.
Coming back to my issue, I know for sure that whenever I would feel like drinking and if I tell her she would not agree and start arguing. but i would take my chances. I dont want parents to be involved as it will mess things further and I wont like it.
Lets see what happens.
Thanks for all your help. Let me know if I can be a help to you.