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CpyderW
Keymaster

dear gaya3.
your name is very familiar in south India… C its your child and every child is not ready to obey parents words at first.. they always think u that u r forcing him to get away from his world (play)…its very common…In south they use to quote a word “maile maile na iragu poduma” it means maile means peacock.. iragu means feather… poduma means it delivers…so just by saying peacock peacock u cannot get feather..got it.
so u should not be static. just not always obey what he feels.. at times u must be little harsh (which is very tough for u) and compel him to do. give him 4 candy’s in the place of one.. at the same time be harsh.. u must act as a diplomat at this stage.. only your diplomatic love will make him to forget his disability.. give him surprises.. because he is also watching u when u become too good and bad.. so surprise him automatically he will bounce up… dont worry all kids are directly from god..have faith in him everything will be functional.. take care of him. my sweet hug for him..
smiles and cheers
Sreeram.
if u wish u can call me in 9377889370