One day i called her in the morning and she said that she has moved on meaning she had a physical relationship with one of those guys and dont want to be with me anymore. We had a fight and we stopped talking. We didnt talk for 10 days. I spent my days with a social cutoff and smoking and drinking. She called me after 10 days and said she did a mistake and wants to get back with me. I told her to forget whatever happened and i was ready to take her back but she had to cut her contacts with those guys. She said that is not possible and whether it was a mistake or not but those 10 days were very beautiful for her and she dont want to spoil them in any way. She says she wants to marry me but wants to keep him as a friend.
I am totally devastated and confused that should i consider her request as a honest one or she is going to repeat whatever happened. She says she had very good sex in those 10 days and it was totally out of passion and nothing else. They sometimes had 10 times sex in a day only and it was ecstatic. Now, after 4 months, we were going to get married but the attitude she has towards what she did, i am totally confused whether i should consider this girl for marrying or not. Please advise.
according to me u should not except her, & shud not give her second chance to hurt u again….relationship is based on trust , distance cant be the reason to cheat u. if u have done this she would have not accepted u. in future if she can do the same