I can understand in what pain and confusion you are in right now. firat you need to be clear in your head.. wether you want to spent your rest of your life being back with your husband or with the another whom your parents wants you to get settle down with. if you decide to stay with your husband then please talk to him regarding evrything and every aspect don’t be confused or make a rash decision. if you feel you are ready to quit your divorce and want to get back to your husband, then next step is to talk to your parents because sooner or later you have to tell your decision to them. if possible ask your husband to come along with you and talk to your parents. as we know parents happiness lies in their children, so after knowing the truth and see the love your husband has for you, your father gets convinced.
Nishar its no point being upset instead be clear, focus and decide what you want in your life and in this you can only help your self with. just sit down be relax, close your eyes and focus on what you want. specifically after deciding , stick to it.
hope you sail out of your problem soon. would be waiting for your response.
god bless you!!!