#15464

besse
Participant

Hi, I read through your issue and my heart goes out to you. You must be in great shock and distress. the thing we find the worst is understanding why such things happen to us when we dont mean harm to anybody. It seems like people go out of their way to destroy our lives for extremely trivial reasons, like this woman duping you into marriage only to feel one up on her ex-lover. Unfortunately its the cliches that finally prevail, time will heal, sorry I dont mean to depress you further. I too have gone through and am still going through an extremely unreal and unfair situation solely because a person I trusted decided to betray me in a terrible way. Its been over a year but I still have trouble coming to terms with it. You have to focus on the small things that are alright in your life and push away the thoughts of self-harm. Its one moment at a time, one day at a time. We can never fathom why it happened, believe that you didnt deserve it so dont beat yourself up. The best revenge is to live well and be happy. easier said than done….good luck my friend. Perhaps the kindness of strangers can help heal the pain inflicted by friends or family