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    Profile photo of Komal
    Komal
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    I am 19yrs old… I am in a relationship with a boy whom i love the most… Everything was going well until 3months ago when my mother found some of our pics… And from then on i stay scared all the day and worried if my mom asks me to leave him… Coz she has got a doubt in her mind that i am linked up with a guy…

    And as a result i sometimes feel that i am betraying my parents as i lie to them and hide the truth from them regarding him…

    I dont know how to deal with all these… !!

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    Swarup
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    Hi komal it is not the real fact about your mother. If she has doubt in you then she will definitely scolded you and She would told u to leave him in that time itself. She has faith in you that you will not going to fall down their image and respect in the society. Can u tell me is they are treating u as same as before?

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    Panchi
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    Dear Komal

    It is quite natural for ur parents to question u on seeing ur pics. It is a general concern. If you want time to hide the fact then take time. But be sure not to make ur parents feel betrayed. And also be sure about ur relationship. I wouldn’t ask u to make a confession to ur parents but if they are friendly and if u can make them understand, u can say that. And don’t expect that they’d accept ur words all of a sudden but at least u feel u wouldn’t have betrayed them. Or else give all this some time. Tell ur mother a valid reason so that u wouldn’t have to cringe the fact in ur mind with thoughts of betrayal

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