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    Amin
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    Hello,

    My name is Amin. I am a 22 year old male. I had a relationship 2 years ago. Unfortunately because of religious problems she broke up with me. From then I am going through some problems. I cannot be happy at all. I cannot involve much with friends or family. I am not that cool guy anymore. I find it so difficult to speak with people, face them, or make new contacts. I cannot really concentrate on anything. The thing is that I still love her. But there is no way to contact her. She don’t want me to contact her either. I thought time will heal it. Since 2 years have passed and I am still the same, I decided to go for expert advice or medication. Can you help me get my life back on track? I cannot concentrate on work, family, or anything else. I feel like all I want is her. Please help me.

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    Pari
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    Dear Amin,
    I understand your situation.
    Some relationships do not materialize whatever you do. yours is one of them.
    I really appreciate your feelings for her.You have rightly written that you felt that things will subside with time.But believe me my friend, there are few feelings which have no connection with time, distance, marital status….You will definitely remember her less but still you will have her memories.
    SO NOW! when it is more than 2 years and you know that this relationship is over, why dont you just cherish the memories and also the pain! I might be sounding weird but it happens.
    When we loose someone to God, this is exactly what we do.
    Life moves one and let your feeling move on with you. The more you will TRY to get rid of them the more you will think of it.
    Stop pitying yourself….. you had a beautiful relationship which could not materialise… but thats not the end of world…..
    more things will are waiting for you… only you can reach out to them …no one can push you my friend…..
    Enjoy Life! Cherish you memories ! and move ahead! Its beautiful!

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