if you don’t know what bpd is, this link explains it:https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-intelligent-divorce/201503/the-borderline-father
my dad is sweet and cheery in front of my mom and relatives/friends, but the MOMENT they leave he becomes a monster. i hate Hate HATE him. just now i got mad at my brother, so i pinched him, all in good fun, right? wrong. my dad took me to the bathroom, soaked me in ice cold water, and beat me up. my mom got home, and asked why i was wet and crying (i was in a towel by now) my dad said that i took a shower. i broke down and told my mom through tears what he did, but she fucking thought i was LYING. god, she thought i had a nightmare or something, because,”my dear husband wouldn’t dream of doing such a thing! go to your room right now young lady!” could i get some help, please?