Been married two decades. An achiever myself, helped my partner with his every difficulty in career. First business. Then education abroad. His career has still not taken off. He has become resentful. He refuses to contribute his time/ effort though financially he still cant support and I don’t need his support, I am independent myself. Earning more than him. I have for long supported him both financially and emotionally. Now I have reached my peak and I don’t wish to be hurt any more. His struggle has killed our social life, distanced our friends. His own family has become fractured. I feel I would save myself if I distance myself from him. I don’t wish to be part of his struggle any more. But now I feel very lonely and unable to decide what’s best.