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    wyss
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    I am a college student pretty good at studies.

    The problem is that I am unable to face any group even known people if it is a formal setting.

    Till now i have avoided getting in such situations but now this must be resolved for my future’s sake. I see my friends giving interviews and work where they desire. I am very jealous of that. i feel handicapped by my inability to face this fear.

    Whenever I do try to face people I am unable to form proper sentences and blurt out gibberish, embarrassing myself, lowering my self-esteem even more.I am now scared to try again.

    It’s not that I am not capable of speaking. I speak well if its one-on-one informal conversation with a friend, but not otherwise. I feel all hope fading as responsibilities on my shoulders increase every passing year. I have to do something now.

    Someone help me please.

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    wyss wrote:
    I am a college student pretty good at studies.

    The problem is that I am unable to face any group even known people if it is a formal setting.

    Till now i have avoided getting in such situations but now this must be resolved for my future’s sake. I see my friends giving interviews and work where they desire. I am very jealous of that. i feel handicapped by my inability to face this fear.

    Whenever I do try to face people I am unable to form proper sentences and blurt out gibberish, embarrassing myself, lowering my self-esteem even more.I am now scared to try again.

    It’s not that I am not capable of speaking. I speak well if its one-on-one informal conversation with a friend, but not otherwise. I feel all hope fading as responsibilities on my shoulders increase every passing year. I have to do something now.

    Someone help me please.


    Hey….ur problem is that u don’t mix up with people and are unable to express yourself….do one thing just scroll ur contact list of ur mobile and call anyone randomly and say whatever u want without thinking what his/her reaction would be….just do it twice or thrice…you’ll see the change in you…I did it

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    green flower
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    Try giving mock speeches and interviews in front of a mirror.

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