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    gpg
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    Dear people

    Im going to complete 1 year of marriage but facing some problem with my husbnd.
    likewise yesterday night i gave my husband 6 calls and he called upon seeing them, but when he called up i started kidding him and told im sleeping and he knew i was joking but he said ok bye gud nite.
    now i want to ask u all who should make the next call me or my husband?
    Pls reply me asap its highly urgent. plzzzzzz….

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    gpg wrote:
    Dear people

    Im going to complete 1 year of marriage but facing some problem with my husbnd.
    likewise yesterday night i gave my husband 6 calls and he called upon seeing them, but when he called up i started kidding him and told im sleeping and he knew i was joking but he said ok bye gud nite.
    now i want to ask u all who should make the next call me or my husband?
    Pls reply me asap its highly urgent. plzzzzzz….

    This one incident in particular does not indicate a problem to me. It happens all the time. First year is the honeymoon year. Towards the end of the year, the men generally start focussing more on work and thier attention to romance dimineshes. I am not saying that its correct or not, but that is how it happens.

    It is possible that your husband is a busy one and as you said, he seems to work night shifts. Now, unless there is a pressing reason to call during busy work hours, these calls are more of irritants. There are many husbands who are almost pestered by incessent calls from wives. Infact a few days ago I heard a program on an FM channel on this topic.

    So, keeping only this one incident in mind, do you think your hubby could be too busy to talk during office time?

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    gpg wrote:
    Dear people

    Im going to complete 1 year of marriage but facing some problem with my husbnd.
    likewise yesterday night i gave my husband 6 calls and he called upon seeing them, but when he called up i started kidding him and told im sleeping and he knew i was joking but he said ok bye gud nite.
    now i want to ask u all who should make the next call me or my husband?
    Pls reply me asap its highly urgent. plzzzzzz….

    Hey gpg,

    I don’t seem to be a much of a problem here. This is just an incidence and can hapen with anyone. To be honest there is no problem making a first move. Instead you shouldn’t wait make a cal and plan a candle night dinner for him at home and watch romantic movie with him as this would build your relationship more strong with love and understanding which is required at this stage. So all these are minor things which u should let it go and dont bother to effect your relationship.

    So i would expect to look forward from your reply of initiating a stronger relationship with your husband instead of focusing it on minor details.

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