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    Paru.k
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    My mother is neurotic… on medicines… and her behaviour towards people and things is creating pain and frustration in me.. i start crying on little things.. feel low very often… dont know where my life is going… or how things will be in future… my family is concerned about my marriage… but more than that i am concerned about my family… i dont know whats happening… i am not able to pray… not able to smile.. lost somewhere always… always worried whats running in my mothers mind… how will things be in future and all.. although i have lived with it for so many yrs… but still its painful… so much pain that i cant express… what am i supposed to do??? please help…

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    lodestar
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    Paru.k wrote:
    My mother is neurotic… on medicines… and her behaviour towards people and things is creating pain and frustration in me.. i start crying on little things.. feel low very often… dont know where my life is going… or how things will be in future… my family is concerned about my marriage… but more than that i am concerned about my family… i dont know whats happening… i am not able to pray… not able to smile.. lost somewhere always… always worried whats running in my mothers mind… how will things be in future and all.. although i have lived with it for so many yrs… but still its painful… so much pain that i cant express… what am i supposed to do??? please help…

    hi Friend,

    I understand the situation you are dealing with. I am kind of dealing with the same situation. I also understand your concern towards your family. I had read somewhere on the internet that while dealing with situations like these we have to take care about ourselves as well. There is nothing wrong in taking care of ourselves. I know exactly how frustrating and painful it is, but try to be happy. Do things you like to do more often. Don’t think about the future right now. live in the moment. We often keep worrying about things which probably would never happen. Try to relax. If you have been living with it for a long time, you should realize and appreciate how strong you are. Be patient with your mom.With a sound mind, you will be able to find out solutions.Understand you are not alone in this, there are many others out there dealing with the same situations. Don’t lose hope.
    My best wishes.

    Be Happy to be alive :)

    #15401

    mehrunnisa.azad.k
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    I’m really sorry to hear about the situation that you’re dealing with. It’s unfortunate that parents can be so difficult to handle sometimes. It can be hard to always be strong, but you must have the spirit to fight to resolve these issues in life.

    I totally agree with the advice that has been given to you, but I’d like to ask you something. If your mother is suffering from a psychiatric issue, have you thought about taking her for psychological/psychiatric therapy? My mother went through a really difficult phase in her life, but now she’s much better thanks to psychiatric treatment and the love and support provided to her by all her family members. Healing takes time, but one must never give up, even though it can be emotionally and psychologically exhausting sometimes.

    I can help you out more on this matter if you wish to discuss it further. Let me know whatever works for you.

    Take care, babe.
    Hang in there.

    Love,

    Mehr-un-Nisa Azad Kamaluddin
    Lahore, Pakistan

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