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    rituparna
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    i am a final year ug student in love with a man for the past 5 years. he has not completed his graduation but is earning well from the share market and i don’t have any problems with that. Recently when i told my parents about him they did not approve of him saying that not having a degree will let them down in society. Now i don’t want to hurt my parents nor do i want to leave my bf. Is living together an option that i can consider in this scenario? Please help.

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    living together might not work with ur parents disapproving of that.Ask your parents to meet him and take a wise decision and also take the help of a marriage councellor. if u are looking for marriage then taking an impulsive decision is not good. If ur parents doubt his ability then background check of ur bf might be helpful.

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    Hi ritu , it will not be good for u with living together in this age. It is not a big matter if he didn’t got a degree now, he can get it if he has passion and encourage frm all of u. Now u can’t go oppose of parents decisions because they know what is good for ur future. Only good earning will not going to be a better reason to get marry. He should get some more responsibilities. And before u taking the living together decision think number of times. In now a days after marriage also some husband and wife having many problems then how can u decide that living together will solve ur problems. So be careful in taking any step, u are still having more time to decide about ur future.

    #18303
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    Thanks a lot for your advice. well he is a good man. And i do have time to think about it. I think i’ll make my parents talk with me and him together before we make any decision.

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    Swarup
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    Good , always be positive and have confidence on urself everything will be alright. All d best

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