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    Ashi
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    Dear Prachi,
    Hi Im a 25yr old,Female completed my graduation.Whn I ws in my first year f graduation,I ws befriended by a boy who is nw my husband..
    I cme frm a v gud family,was a protected child n recieved lots f love n care during my time with my parents.I ws d topper f my school n college,n on merit I got my graduation seat wit a gud rank and a scholarship..I ws dis nerdy studious girl,who dnt get 2 interact with boys.

    It ws in my first year f graduation course,around 17yrs dat I met him,he was my senior.I ws initially jst was like any other friend n also the fact is dat he is frm other religion.Initially we met as jst friends bt later he started becoming possessive abt me,angry if i dnt agree wit him on meetn him.Nad one day he said he loves me..I said lets nt hurry up anything..he cntinued 2 bcme more possesive n slowly started cntrolln my life..It ws the first time I was satyn in a hostel,away frm my parents.I ws afraid cos he hd spread rumors abt me being his GF.N one day unfortunately v had a v bad accident on the bike n near my father 2 save him frm goin 2 prison I said dat I luv him so I went wit him..

    frm dat moment on it spread like wild fire in d campus,my friends left me cos dey were afraid f him,I stopped talkn 2 my parents.Ws totally in control f him.He became physical wit me,n I cudnt say anythn..
    den he started havn sme troubles in his house n he started hitting me badly whn v met..If I refused to meet him he wud threaten 2 cme 2 hostel n do smethn bad..

    I was totally alone,no one 2 reach out to and talk..n I cnvinced myself dat yes Ill b wit him n luv him..mayb he’ll change cos smetimes he wud cry infront f me sayn he luves me alot n dat its dat luv wch is makn me do all dis..

    I endured all thru..attempted suicide 2-3 times..went down in my academics..whn his torture became unbearable I stopped talkn to him 4 a while to clear my head abt dis relation whn he came 2 girls hostel n it became a big issue on TV…

    he begged,cried n said He luves me,dat his career wud be gone..dat if I say 2 evry1 dat I luv him n dat he is gud I can save him n dat he’ll marry me..

    by den I hd tld myself dat der is no way out f dis relation..so I agreed tld d media dat I luv him,dat he is a gud man..After dis v gt married n showed dem dat v r in love..

    bt his physical abuse dnt stop..I cmpleted my graduation…tuk up a job…
    hd 2 prepare 4 PG,bt as we dnt ve enough..he beat me n said he’ll get d PG seat aftr wch I can try till den I shud work..

    dat I did,n he gt d PG seat n v shifted 2 another city..Bt aftr cmn 2 d city he is eyeing on other females,flirtn wit dem…due all dis tension watevr I read is nt havn any effect n Im nt able 2 crack a PG seat..

    he is cnstantly sayn dat Im useless 2 him nw cos I dnt earn,he is wit another girl n whn I confronted him he beat me up badly..

    plz help me,I ve lost my self smehwere,in all dis he dnt lose anythn bt I lost evrythn,my career,self-esteem,self-confidence..I dnt knw how cope wit dis situation n get myself out…

    Im afraid f ppl,men especially,Im afraid f him,lost trust on evryone..have suicidal thots..

    plz help

    #15605

    user
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    Hi,
    I’m so sad to listen your situation. If you are confident that he never change his attitude, just apply for divorce…its my suggestion

    #15606

    sona
    Participant

    pls help me. I feel like I am going somewhere in my mind. I cant sleep properly. I just don’t know exactly what is happening to me. I just know I am in a pain and I am fed of this. sometimes I feel like I am flying but my body I still. I am not getting any way out of this.

    #15612

    Swarup
    Participant

    Hi sona i’m ur frd so ur problem is ordinary youth problem that is Love. So tell me how it’s happened and with whom ? Then i will tell u the suggestion for that…:)

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